If you reflect on who the friends are that you have, that you feel most close to, I bet that they are people who listen well. And that just tends to be the case because we feel more connected to people who really listen to us, but what do you do when you have a […]
Friend, Listen, Listening, listening skills
I received a birthday card not too long ago that had a drawing of a couple on it, sitting together, and the man was handing the woman a flower. And on the front of the card it said,” Sometimes words are not enough.” The card was given to me by a cousin who is very […]
Birthday Card, silence, Silent
When I was a kid, there was a cartoon called,” The Hillbilly Bears”, and one of the bear’s grandpas would mumble and grumble when he started talking and you couldn’t really make out what he was saying until the last few words. Sometimes, in life, it can feel like people don’t catch the first few […]
Listening, listening skills, The Hillbilly Bears, tips
When I was growing up, it was not uncommon if teachers or parents saw us sort of slouching down in our chair to say, “Sit up straight!” And I’m not exactly sure what they wanted more than making sure that we had good posture, but they may have been more right than they realized. There […]
advice, brain, posture, sit up straight
When you mention daily routines to most people, you’ll likely get reactions that are polar opposite. There are people who love routines because they enjoy being organized and structured, and there are people who don’t like routines because they feel like it is inhibiting their freedom. I am more on the enjoying routines side of […]
advice, brain, ideas, oranization, routines
My father’s birthday was June 15th, very close to Father’s Day, and often it’s been the same day as Father’s Day, but throughout my father’s life, when he was alive, he didn’t want us to celebrate Father’s Day and his birthday together. He insisted on separating them, which I always thought was out of character […]
celebration, character, father, out of character
One of my favorite quotations is, “I hate writing, but I love having written.” And that has been attributed to various famous writers including Dorothy Parker and others, but I’ve never found verification for who actually said it. It’s interesting that writers often feel like they’re suffering while they are writing and revising, but they […]
better after, hate, love, quotation, Writing
Years ago, I saw a wonderful James Thurber cartoon that shows a man holding a phone and yelling into it,” Well if I called the wrong number, why did you answer the phone?” And it captures so well when something bad happens that’s our fault, we can at times immediately blame the other person. I […]
advice, mindset, perspective, perspectives
Russell Conwell was a Baptist Minister, a philanthropist, an attorney, an educator and the founder of Temple University in Philadelphia. He was well known for giving a speech many times called “Acres of Diamonds”. The essence of that speech was that people often mistakenly believe that to be successful, or find prosperity or their fortunes, […]
conwell, diamonds, mindset, opportunity, temple
The saying, “You don’t get a second chance to make a first impression,” makes many people feel condemned to failure if they didn’t do so well when first meeting somebody, like in a job interview or a social situation, and it is true that just the way we’re hardwired, we make very fast impressions and […]
chances, first impression, impression, redo, second chance